Becoming Someone

“Becoming someone” is probably the biggest trap we all fall into.

From childhood, I was chasing the idea of becoming: smarter, more successful, more impressive.

Over time, through reading, reflection, conversations, and observing patterns in both myself and others, I started questioning that idea.

Because the more I tried to become someone, the more I drifted away from myself.

And here’s the uncomfortable part: even if you get there, it can still feel empty.

Maybe the game was never about becoming.

Maybe it’s about removing everything that isn’t really you.

Still unlearning. Still figuring it out.